You are not the problem. You are the solution.
Are you sick of feeling like you are the problem when you know you actually have the solution? I did too for a long time and have a found a path to healing and freedom that you can too.
Growing up, I didn't do well within traditional environments so that created challenges for me struggling to find places and people that I fit with.
I didn’t realize that doing things my own way would actually upset people and led to me getting into trouble when I didn’t think I had done anything wrong. They actually revised the school handbook at my junior high more than once because they had to add new rules based on the things I was doing that made the authorities uncomfortable.
Over time, I started to believe that something was wrong with me because I got into trouble so much that it wasn’t just that I was a problem, I was the problem.
I finally learned through a lot of pain and soul searching that I’m not the problem, I am the solution. I decided I am no longer going to try to force the tradition to fit me or change myself to fit it. I am embracing all of me and creating a path that works for who I am and who I want to be.
If you relate to this, try what I did to heal and grow.
Learn to love all of you as you lovingly part with the parts of you that protected you for a long time but you no longer need. Welcome in the new you that you always knew you could be. And reconnect with the parts of yourself that you learned to turn off at a young age since they weren’t welcome but now...you are welcoming them back. This includes anything about yourself that others used to make you question if something really was fundamentally wrong with you, that you were the problem.
You are not the problem. You are the solution. You can transmute that pain and follow the light of the fire it lit within you that still flickers in you somewhere and glow that fire up to blaze the trail you want to be on now.
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